Sometimes you need to be a control freak
When is it the right time to be a control freak ? I believe the only time, well not the only time, but the main time you wanna be a control freak is when you want to pursue something new and you're asking for validation from somebody else on all the reasons why you shouldn't do it. Now think about it. I believe the time to be a control freak is when you know, without a doubt, that if you had to look back many years from now, and you actually regret it, not doing it, because you actually listen to someone else's validation and approval of whether you should or shouldn't do something that's when you should be control freak.
To tell yourself that i am not going to allow myself and have my actions to be dictated based on my parents, my friends, my peers, and ask yourself and have ownership to know that if you didn't do it you will regret it many years down the road. That you will live a life of "oh well's"rather than "what's if". So to think of it. If right now there's this thing that you want to accomplish you're still not sure you're still looking for approval, know this, it would be the case of all these people around you they're giving you all these advices on why you shouldn't do something but lets face it chances are most of the times they have never really done it themselves. And that's the question you got to ask yourself is, have the actually gotten the results i want to achieve? Because chances are, they too are saying opinions of what they heard from somebody else. It's advice the heard from in-laws, mothers, brothers, sister-in-laws or something.
Even though the could have the best intentions, they've never really tried it out themselves. So at the end of the day, take control, be a control freak if you know this is the dream you wanna pursue and if you didn't do it you would regret it down the road.
DON'T LIVE WITH "OH WELL'S", YOU WILL REGRET IT MANY YEARS DOWN THE ROAD
To tell yourself that i am not going to allow myself and have my actions to be dictated based on my parents, my friends, my peers, and ask yourself and have ownership to know that if you didn't do it you will regret it many years down the road. That you will live a life of "oh well's"rather than "what's if". So to think of it. If right now there's this thing that you want to accomplish you're still not sure you're still looking for approval, know this, it would be the case of all these people around you they're giving you all these advices on why you shouldn't do something but lets face it chances are most of the times they have never really done it themselves. And that's the question you got to ask yourself is, have the actually gotten the results i want to achieve? Because chances are, they too are saying opinions of what they heard from somebody else. It's advice the heard from in-laws, mothers, brothers, sister-in-laws or something.
Even though the could have the best intentions, they've never really tried it out themselves. So at the end of the day, take control, be a control freak if you know this is the dream you wanna pursue and if you didn't do it you would regret it down the road.
DON'T LIVE WITH "OH WELL'S", YOU WILL REGRET IT MANY YEARS DOWN THE ROAD
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